Abusive boyfriend whose partner Kiena Dawes blamed him for her death in suicide note jailed

An abusive boyfriend whose girlfriend blamed him for her death in a suicide note - after he subjected her to years of violence - has been jailed for six-and-a-half years for controlling and coercive behaviour and assault.

Ryan Wellings, 30, was found guilty of the offences but was cleared of Kiena Dawes's manslaughter by a jury at Preston Crown Court on Monday.

He was the first defendant in England to face trial for the unlawful killing of his partner after her suicide following domestic violence.

Shortly after Ms Dawes wrote her note on her phone, in which she described Wellings as a "monster", the 23-year-old hairdresser left it with a friend before she took her own life on 22 July 2022.

Prosecuting, Paul Greaney KC cited the suicide note at Wellings's trial. In it, Ms Dawes said he had "killed [her]".

"He ruined every bit of strength I had left," the note said. "I had dreams. I had a future at one point. That was taken away from me."

Wellings denied the allegations against him and told jurors "I'm not a monster".

While a jury cleared Wellings of Kiena's manslaughter, Mr Greaney invited the court to sentence the defendant "on the basis that [the offending of which he was convicted] formed the background to and set the scene for her death".

He said the abuse was "both regular and routine across the relationship".

On one occasion, the court heard the defendant "held a drill to Kiena's face, switched the drill on and threatened to drill out her teeth".

'Breaks my heart'

In a personal statement read out on her behalf in court, Angela Dawes, Kiena's mother, said: "It breaks my heart that [Kiena's] beautiful baby doesn't have her mummy here because of that monster."

"I truly hope that no other young lady or child has to go through what he did to my daughter and her baby," she added.

Kiena's grandmother, Irene Ball, said she had noticed at times during Kiena's relationship with Wellings that her smile was "false" but recalled her granddaughter "tried to reassure [her]".

"It was extremely shocking to see my granddaughter hurt and with injuries to her beautiful face," she said.

"I told Kiena that he would really badly hurt her one day and I pleaded with her not to go back to him."

Kynan Dawes, Kiena's brother, said: "I introduced Kiena to this monster and I will regret that for the rest of my life."

Mr Dawes said he felt "justice [had] been served" as "the world now knows what a monster he is".

Addressing those who'd been following Kiena's case online, he added: "I want people to see that domestic violence is not OK and men should respect their partners."

He also urged anyone experiencing domestic violence to "go to the police", adding "if you don't feel like you can do this, speak to family or friends".

'Friendly and kind young woman'

In sentencing, Judge Robert Altham said Ms Dawes was "a popular, vivacious, friendly and kind young woman".

"She pleaded with you to stop hitting her, but you just carried on. You tried to persuade her that it was her fault for upsetting you," he added.

Ms Dawes had attempted suicide in the past, before her relationship with Wellings, and lawyers for Wellings told the court her death was because of "multiple factors".

The judge said the defendant was aware of Ms Dawes's history of mental health issues, he "called her names connected with her illness" and "repeatedly told her that she may as well kill herself".

However, he said his sentence was based on the jury's conclusion that the defendant had "no criminal responsibility" for Kiena's death.

In mitigation, John Jones KC told the court the relationship between Ms Dawes and Wellings, a landscape gardener from Bispham who had a previous conviction for battering an ex-partner, was "inconsistent" throughout its two-and-a-half years.

"It would be wrong to say that that coercive relationship was in existence throughout," he said.

The court heard the abuse of Ms Dawes included regular slapping and "ragging" by her hair, and threats to use a drill to take out her teeth and throw acid in her face.

After she became pregnant, Wellings gave her a black eye and began criticising her weight, calling her "fat" while contacting escorts and prostitutes online.

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Police were called more than once, but Wellings threatened Ms Dawes that their daughter would be taken from them if she told them what was happening, so she declined to help prosecute him.

But she did report Wellings following an attack which left her needing hospital treatment and he was arrested.

He broke his bail conditions but was not locked up, leaving Ms Dawes feeling let down by police. Four days later, she killed herself.

Wellings' sentences, to run consecutively, were for controlling or coercive behaviour in an intimate relationship and for assault occasioning actual bodily harm.

A further count of assault on the defendant's former friend Scott Fletcher was also included as part of the sentence, an offence to which he had previously pleaded guilty.

Wellings will serve half of the sentence in prison before he is released on licence.

Anyone feeling emotionally distressed or suicidal can call Samaritans for help on 116 123 or email jo@samaritans.org in the UK. In the US, call the Samaritans branch in your area or 1 (800) 273-TALK.

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